It’s a general knowledge that keeping women in your life is not an easy task. First of all, you make mistakes while approaching them.
And secondly, even if you somehow approach a woman and things start moving forward, suddenly something happens and you get branded as a creep in the mind of that woman.
How does that happen? And more importantly, how can you stop it from happening?
Well, there are 6 major ways to avoid being labeled as a creep, and here we’re going to talk about all of them. Let’s get started:
#1. By not carrying a smart look
Looks matter a lot. Good looking guys with strong social skills can get away with a lot more than average looking guys with bad social skills. At the same time, however, also keep in mind that looking good doesn’t give you the license to do whatever the f**k you want to do! It’s just that if you don’t look good, even smallest mistakes seem more irritating than they’re.
So if you want to avoid looking like a creep, the first thing the first thing you should pay attention to is how you look. You don’t need to look like a model, but you need to look your best with perfectly fitting clothes, neatly trimmed facial hair and a haircut that suits your face.
#2. Age gap
It’s nothing wrong to like women younger than you. But if age gap between you and the women you like is a lot more than it should ideally be, and you still try to approach that women, you’ll automatically slip into the creep-territory. The ideal rule to follow here, according to data extracted from OK Cupid, is to avoid approaching women younger than “half your age plus seven”.
#3. Being nervous
If you’re nervous while interacting with women, you’ll do more creepy things than you otherwise would. Nervousness creates a strange awkwardness into our conversation and actions. No matter how much you try to balance your acts if you’re nervous you won’t be able to do so. So be calm, and be relaxed.
#4. Telling that you couldn’t stop thinking about her
This line has become such a classic among guys that it was a must to include it here. If you’re telling this to ladies, you’re actually begging to be assigned the “creep” tag. I personally don’t know any ladies who like this line, and if you’re using this line thinking that it will make you sound nice, stop using it.
This one you may know already. Following a women unnecessarily in life, on social media or at any other platform can instantly give you the recognition of a creep. You accompanying her to home because it’s not safe for women to go home alone at night, even when she says vehemently that she is fine, also classifies as following/stalking. And it has the potential to make that woman run away from you. Don’t do that!
#6. Forced hugs/calls/anything else
Forced interactions almost never lead to good endings. You should never hug, call or interact with a woman in any other way when she’s clearly not appreciating your actions. The best that you can do in such a situation is to walk away. This has been suggested even by the highly paid escorts of www.torontoescorts.mobi that they don’t like clients who are pushy about something.
Men can slip into creep-territory much more quickly than they realize. Therefore, it’s imperative for you to be more careful around how you look, act and speak in front of women. At the same time, however, take it easy and don’t be overly concerned too. As long as you don’t make any of the mistakes given above, you’ll be able to save yourself from being branded a creep.